Why This Book Is Perfect for Your Family

Welcoming a new baby is a monumental moment for any family, but it's especially significant for the big sibling. This keepsake activity book gives them a voice, letting them record their own thoughts, feelings, and memories during this exciting transition. It’s a wonderful way to help the older child feel included and valued, fostering a strong sibling bond from the very beginning.

The activities are designed to be developmentally appropriate, encouraging writing, drawing, and emotional expression while supporting key early childhood skills. Because the book spans the entire first year, it captures growth and change from the sibling’s perspective—something the whole family will cherish for years to come. It also makes a thoughtful gift for any expectant family with a big sibling at home, adapting to different ages and reading levels.

What Makes The Big Sibling Book Special?

Unlike traditional baby books that focus solely on the newborn, this one is all about the older sibling. The prompts are open-ended and adaptable, so no two books will ever be the same. They naturally invite grown-ups to talk with their child about the new addition, making the experience more meaningful. From recording first impressions to listing favourite moments together, each page celebrates the big sibling’s unique perspective.

The book also provides a safe creative outlet for expressing emotions—excitement, curiosity, or even a touch of jealousy—which can help ease the transition and build a healthy sibling relationship. Completed pages can be displayed on the fridge or stored in a memory box to celebrate the child’s contributions.

How to Use This Interactive Keepsake

Using the book is simple and fun. Children can work at their own pace, with a little help from a parent or older reader for those who aren’t yet writing independently. Start with the first few pages before the baby arrives, then continue adding entries throughout the year. It’s a wonderful way to turn ordinary moments into lasting memories.

Each spread offers a new theme: recording the baby’s firsts, drawing pictures of the family, or listing favourite things to do together. Encourage honesty—if the child feels left out sometimes, that’s okay. The book can be a tool to work through those emotions, and there are no right or wrong answers.

FAQs About Sibling Preparation Books

Can the book be used if the baby hasn’t arrived yet? Yes, many families start the book before the baby is born, with pages about preparing for the new arrival. It’s a wonderful way to build excitement.

Is this book suitable for boys and girls? Yes, it’s designed for any big sibling, focusing on the child’s personal experience. It’s universally appealing.

Does the book require additional materials? No, just a pen or crayons. The pages are designed for drawing and writing directly in the book.

How can parents make the most of it? Set aside regular time—maybe once a week or once a month—to work on a page together. Let the child take the lead and write the date on each page; these small details make the book a priceless time capsule.

Tips for Big Siblings (and Their Parents)

To get the most out of this book, let the child take the lead. There are no right or wrong answers, so encourage honesty. Use the book as a conversation starter about the baby’s development, comparing the sibling’s observations with the baby’s actual milestones. This reinforces the idea that both children are growing and learning together. Don’t forget to write the date on each page—these small details turn the book into a treasured time capsule.

Parents can also use the book to prepare their child for the new arrival. By involving the big sibling from the start, you help ease any anxieties and build excitement. The book is designed to be inclusive and adaptable, making it a versatile tool for sibling preparation.

What Is The Big Sibling Book?

The Big Sibling Book: Baby’s First Year According to ME is an activity book created to help older siblings document their new baby’s first year. It turns the spotlight on the big brother or big sister, allowing them to record their own thoughts, feelings, and memories during this exciting family transition. It’s a tool to foster connection and make the older child feel special and involved.

Unlike traditional baby books, this one focuses on the sibling’s journey. Pages are filled with prompts, drawing activities, and fill-in-the-blank spaces that encourage creativity and reflection. From recording first impressions to documenting favourite moments together, the book captures a unique perspective that families will treasure for years to come.

This book is intended as a fun activity and keepsake. It is not a substitute for professional parenting advice. Always consult your paediatrician or family therapist for guidance on sibling adjustment.